the journey

Published: 10 years ago

Two Frogs

Stumpled upon this story – it resonates so deeply with me. Maybe because I have been trained extensively in language patterns through all of my NLP teachings, but I think moreso because there’s a big part of me who never have paid any attention to people telling me what should or should not do – or even worse – could or could not do. I remember early on forcing myself to focus my energy in another direction – looking for other, better and more motivating and inspiring friends and groups. Always looking for the ones who said “let’s do it, I know we can make it!”. It’s a short story and I hope you like it –

“A group of frogs were traveling through the woods, and two of them fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead. The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit with all their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died.

The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the other frogs said, “Did you not hear us?” The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.”

This story teaches two lessons:

1. There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day.

2. A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes to kill them.

Be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who cross your path. The power of words… it is sometimes hard to understand that an encouraging word can go such a long way. Anyone can speak words that tend to rob another of the spirit to continue in difficult times. Special is the individual who will take the time to encourage another.

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